The dishwasher is quietly humming in the finally cleaned kitchen. The kids are in bed. The look that means "I want sex. Our relaxation evaporates, our skin bristles, or our muscles tense up. We may love and adore our partners—yet suddenly we are on the defensive. We may have even wanted sex before we saw the look, but now we find ourselves backpedaling.

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Into my late 20s, I found myself in a sexless marriage. After a passionate beginning, I had lost my libido. No sexual desire or even a fluttering in my genitals. Feeling broken, I sought out ways to be fixed to look and act like I am supposed to : turned on, sexy, and wanting sex with my loving husband. I went to gynecologists, therapists and a variety of medical doctors who, maybe, hopefully , could point me towards a cure. Having an answer would mean I was fixable, that I could get back to normal. But the answers I got — the answers of a science solely based on men — were not what I wanted to hear. Feeling dejected, I shut down, pulling away from my husband. It was not until five years after my divorce — the inevitable next step from having lost the physical and emotional connection that had bound us in the first place — that I learned the truth that liberated my sexuality and paved the way for a fulfilling and nourishing sex life.
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Is your husband losing interest in sex and you can't figure out why, or what to do about it? Marriage therapist Michele Weiner Davis shares some insights she gained from talking to women about their sex lives, sex drives and dry spells. Are you a sex-starved wife? A woman who deeply desires more satisfying sex with your husband? Would you settle for just more sex? Or to put it more accurately, would some sex do? If so, I am not surprised that the title of this book piqued your interest.
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